what a boy to do

I am 25 and I have dated a number of girls this year but I can honestly say that I still have feelings for a girl I have not spoken to for the past two years, some of you will say just get over it and stop thinking out her but how can I stop thinking about someone who meant so much to me, I try not to think about her(I have thrown everything away that reminds me of her). We had a bitter argument and she hurt me and lied to me. I have not met anyone that made me feel like she does but at the same time I feel like I cant go back to her since she hurt me and lied to me and I simply dont know what to do??
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advice from Guest1778790 | 12-16-2007 11:19 | E : 1 | S : 0
I can relate completely, but in my position, is was with a guy who had treated me exactly how this girl has treated you.
You can't stop having feelings for them, no matter how hard you try, no matter how bad they've hurt you...
My advice is here. It helped me a lot, and I hope that it helps you as well.
All you can do is pick yourself, brush yourself off, and start looking at other people. Don't live in the past. That will only hurt you, I gurantee you of that. You have to realize that there just might be that girl out there that will care for you and never hurt you, but if you keep chasing after that same girl that hurt you, you might miss your chance to find that one great girl.
I wish you luck, and know that this is from someone that has been in the same position as you =]
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