the abusive relationship that changed me foreverr

i've always been the girl everyone's jealous of
and have been through numerous bad relationships because guys always think that they can take advantage of me, but one guy changed me and i'll never be the same. his name was jason and somehow i fell for him hard, he would get drunk and hit me almost everynight, he even brought other girls to our house and did them right infront of me. he told me i was to much of a slut to keep around. one night i got the courage and left him, he beat me to the point where i passed out in the morning i woke up in the hospital.. jason had left town. i'm now with the most amazing guy ever and were living together, he proposed two nights ago and i love him, but i have commitment issues now in fear of being hurt that bad.. again.
Category Romance

advice from Guest1652130 | 02-15-2008 07:17 | E : 1 | S : 0
take the chance; good guy's are out there. i was married to a worthless druggie and drunk who couldn't seem to keep a job and keep it in his pants either. i took my daughter and got a job and my own place and stayed single for 4 years and i met my husband in the park, (not a bar) and we dated for 2 years and i took my time and really got to know what type of man he truly was. we got married and i have NEVER in my life been happier. take your time and don't jump in another relationship because you are lonely.

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advice from Guest2335513 | 02-15-2008 10:17 | E : 1 | S : 0
tell him. he's not jason and if you both love each other then you need to tell him. talk about the hole committment thing and see where you guys go from there. he desreves a chance.

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advice from Guest2335612 | 02-15-2008 10:24 | E : 1 | S : 1
I'm so sorry girl !
Don't worry, you went through enough now, let it go and you'll be rewarded. I know that it's hard but you have to believe and give him a chance, he probably deserves that. Be aware of signs and don't let anybody hurt you again. Make sure you are communicating on a deeper level before you'll get married, so that you can always shut the door on the world around and talk about your feelings and fears, finding confidence in each other. There are great guys out there, I'm considering myself to be one of them, I'd never hurt a woman, not physically or emotionally, that fact that he was bringing home other women degraded you to a piece of carpet that he felt like is O.K. to walk all over to make himself feel superior so he wouldn't have to face his own problems. You deserve so much better. Go for it. Hope and believe that's the only way . I'm going through my own personal hell myself, hell that I've built with, passion, love, man's pride, hope and sacrifice but without the sense of self preservation. Now the flames are burning me inside every night and feels like black sharp objects are dragged across my heart and I'm going to sit in it until the walls will collapse on top of me or burn my heart to dust..

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